What makes you different?

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

So, keep on experimenting.

So, what actually makes us all different?

What's wrong with white women?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

My wife has a bunch of really attractive friends, and she expects me to never say anything to her about how beautiful they are. Does this seem fair? I love my wife, and just commenting shouldn’t hurt anything, right?

What if he’d come outside?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

How much should one budget to travel for 1 month generally?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

How do I become a Buddhist, and can someone explain Buddhism to me?

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

What are women's true thoughts and feelings on bestiality?

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

What makes you YOU.

Why am I so afraid that gun owners have set traps to kill me outside my house or my car?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Why do men love boobs (irrespective of big or small)?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

If you could go back and rewrite the Legend of Korra, what would you change, and why?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Why are girls supposed to have a stereotypical "hourglass" body shape, and why if you dont have an "hourglass" body shape you get treated differently? It doesnt make any sense to me.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

How can someone determine if their partner is in another romantic relationship, particularly if they do not live together?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Why do creationists ask for proof of evolution and then ignore the answers?

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Why do Trumpers and MAGA Republicans care who is trans and who is gay ECT? If they didn't have a personal interest in transgenderism it shouldn't matter so much then, right?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Agree?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Can you make it?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.